Girls always like to say they want to be ur friend or are ur friends here are the reasons why they are decieving themselves

Let me start by saying a friend in need is a friend indeed but a friend when in need is a friend to weed. Why do girls always think they can be friends, say maybe when u ask em out and they say no but they wanna be friends or something ridiculous like that. thats funny cos most girls i know are only your friends when they need something from you. but as long as their life is all jolly and they have boyfriends who they fuck when they need to they are not thinking of you the so called friend. when two guys are friends well you would most definately see them together, maybe playing video games or sports or doing some assignments or doing what it is that guys do but thats kind of different with a girl and a guy relationship. dont get me wrong sometimes a girl and a guy can really be friends but only special cases and with very special girls or different girls do u then see the real meaning of friendship. With guys its different they come looking for one another, when they come up with some sort of plan or sick joke they kinda think of the other and how they would carry it out, or when they fall ill they look for their friends who have cars and can take them to the hospital, who can lend them money, who they can call on in emergencies, who they they look for when they are bored. but with a girl who's your friend the amount of things u can do with her are very limited so also what she can do for you or would be willing to do for u. Also if u get too close to a girl there are two things of many others that could happen. First you stand a chance of getting to like her  which if u ask me is always possible and secondly if u get too close to her and she has a boyfriend he starts to worry( which any normal guy would anyway) but well ur girlfriend wouldnt worry if u have a a close guy friend unless ofcourse he's eating into her time which can always be fixed. this just makes me fed up, i dnt know why girls and some guys draw that line of friendship when it can hardly ever exist? thats why guys tend to be just friends with girls they know they can never like and well those girls are the ones who are kinda unfortunate cos no guy would go for them or in some cases arent really into boys and have made that clear someway or the other( beats me ). So i now ask the question, why is it that girls make statements like    " lets be friends" or girls that say " he's my friend" or " we are just friends" ......?  that just pisses me off men. cos thats really hypocrytical. we all know that guys can't really stay without sex for so long, we also know that when u hang around  a girl for too long u myt just get to like her maybe after a few parties, alcohol and some odd moments, something will happen that goes to redefined the relationship, its ineveitable. one more thing i am really sure any guy would love to be more than just friends with any fine babe unless well...... he's not into girls which perfectly makes sense, but i find it hard to believe that any guy on this planet would want to be friends with a girl he likes and is very close to when he can have sex with her instead that just doesnt make any sense whichever way you look at it. Now let me hold off on the generalization and be specific. i am a student in  AU nigeria  and well as much as i believe everything i say fits most situations, it fits my skool perfectly......... oops my time's up i'll continue after comments from well...... anyone talk to u again soonest hehehe.......